| "Start by doing a table topic!” Did someone say this when you first joined your club? Getting better at answering difficult or unexpected questions is the reason why many of us joined Toastmasters. Yet giving an impromptu speech is often presented as the easy option. This despite the fact that we all know that off the cuff speaking is both a science AND an art form. Jean Cooper ATB, Riverside Communicators, is a regular winner of the best table topic award. She says keeping your eyes and ears open and remembering small incidents helps. As does gaining varied experiences over a long life. Her clever, witty observations and anecdotes provide the inspiration for her topics answers. Jean is an avid reader of newspapers. And she keeps her finger on the pulse watching XFactor and Strictly Come Dancing. How can we emulate Jean and sharpen our answers in table topics? Lois Frankel's advice fits the bill for table topics, handling tough interview questions and other high pressure situations. Her two key points: people have a short attention span so give your opinion, your bottom line first, then provide two or three supporting points. And secondly, short sounds confident, as in "Go ahead. Make my day!" What do you do if you feel nervous and give an incoherent or fluffy answer? Miss South Carolina demonstrates how. Get over yourself and have another go! It's no surprise that to become a star at table topics you should take every opportunity to speak and PRACTICE, PRACTICE, PRACTICE. |